expectations push motivations or is it the other way around?
this much i know... or at least this is my perspective...
initially i think that what we expect in life, in our relationships, from church, etc pushes our motivation and desire for the thing that we expect most. if my expectation is to be disappointed which on some levels would be a legitimate expectation based on the history of the relationship or the experience then it would be obvious that my motivation would be lacking in that specific arena.
but...
if i had an expectation for depth, intimacy, loyalty, authenticity, for movement... then dont you think that my motivations would be different... dont you think that i would carry with me thru life a different level of anticipation?
what you expect drives your motivation... then maybe our motivations can drive our expectations.
what are you motivated to see happen in your life, in your family, in your community, in your city?
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