it is impossible to give what you don't have!
we all long for intimacy in relationships and wonder where it is and why we don't experience depth... all along knowing we can't give what we don't have.
so... here is our reality;
on one side we have good and the other side we have intimacy. (good vs intimacy) we have grown to pursue good because on some level we can measure it, or at least we have created enough of a mirage that we think that we can measure it. it's like a cause and effect paradigm. if i ____ then i will ____.
the problem with this thinking (on top of many others) is that "good" was never part of the conversation in the first place. the reality is that we are NOT good and we will never be; meaning that we will always fall short...
doesn't it get old falling short all the time and missing the intimacy?
embrace the process... embrace the journey...
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